Freedom From Rejection as a marriage partner- What to do after you have been delivered from the spirit of rejection as a Spouse

I have been involved in deliverance ministry for many years. I have seen the devastation that the spirit of rejection can bring to a marriage or family. Deliverance ministry is not the only ministry needed to be free from self rejection, fear of rejection and the rejection of others. In order to experience lasting freedom from deliverance one must first of all do the following:

1. Repent of the sins that one has released in the marriage from rejection
2. Once delivered do not make it your mission to point it out in your mate 
3. Rejection distorts communication and perception in a spouse's heart towards their mate-therefore one must allow the Holy Spirit to work on the plank their own eye.  You cannot safely remove the splinter from your mate's eyes when there is a plank in our own eye. You may see the splinter but you lack the skill to remove the splinter
4. Daily saturate your heart and mind with the blood of Jesus. Jesus was the most rejected man whoever lived. Apply the blood from His heart( wound from his side) to the seeds of rejection in your heart, the blood from His face ( upon your self esteem), the blood from His skin for the removal of self will from your heart in your relationship with your spouse, the blood from His crown for the removal of all word curses from your mouth  and the mouth of others against your mate and marriage, the blood from His feet to soften your heart so that you can be discipled and coached by others in the repair of your marriage , the blood from his hands to activate productive actions that revive your marriage and the blood from His back to heal your marriage. Remember Rev. 12:11 says they overcame the enemy by the blood of Jesus .
5. Take every thought of self rejection and the fear of rejection to the cross of Jesus Christ
6. In your daily devotion, simply receive a fresh outpouring of the " Father's love " upon your own heart. Once deliverance takes place, your heart must be filled to overflowing with the knowledge of the Father's love. This realm of revelation will cause you to see your mate with new eyes
7. Daily carry all wounds to Christ. I apply the " Blood of Jesus " to my heart when it becomes confused through offenses. There are times we are offended because our perceptions are wrong. If you are honest and willing the Holy Spirit will help you
8. Do you not base your obedience to God in your marriage on your mate's obedience to God. If you base your obedience to God in your marriage regarding how you treat your mate on your mate  changing, your obedience becomes manipulative. ( Jezebel Spirit) 
9. Daily speak confessions regarding who your in Christ over your life 
10. Shower your mate with love, with positive words, etc