Agreement in Marriage- The key to everything you want in life

When husbands and wives come into true agreement regarding their finances, children, goals, major purchases, how to handle present problem and decision in accordance to the Word of God, your prayers in these areas will be answered in a way that will blow your mind. Where there is strife and self ambition there is every evil work James 3:16. If hell consistently breaking out in your household, check out the agreement between yourselves as husband and wives and check out if the decisions are biblically based. There is no agreement without respect to divine order in your marriage. Remember the best decisions are when we both agree; however, when a decision has to be made and we are not seeing eye to eye, the wife should follow her husband along as he is not asking her to commit a crime, sin or do something that  is morally wrong. Personally speaking, I prefer agreement between Jane and I, but when I have to make the decision, I normally have prayed about it, gotten counsel from reliable sources and researched it adequately. As a husband i want the best for my family, its not about me, its about us.  On the flip side there are husbands who never consult their wives or act like their wives are incompetent. I remember the day the Lord told me that I was only living by 50% of my wisdom and that I was being robbed , not recognizing that Jane possessed the other 50 % of my wisdom to make an adequate decision. Over the years, my wife has proven to be my greatest asset. Moreover a stupid wife ( proverbs 12:1) is a wife who motivates or manipulate her husband into making a decision against the direction that He has received from God, THAT SHE KNOWS IS RIGHT AND FROM GOD. SOME WOMEN INSIST ON BEING IN CONTROL BECAUSE SHE GOVERNED BY FEAR. SHE CONTROL SO THAT SHE CAN DETERMINE THE OUTCOME.  A WISE WOMAN USES HER GIFT OF INFLUENCE TO MOTIVATE HER HUSBAND TO DO THE RIGHT THING AND TO FOLLOW GOD. THE REASON WHY I AM SO VEHEMENT ABOUT THIS STATEMENT BECAUSE I HAVE SEEN WIVES MOTIVATE THEIR HUSBANDS TO LEAVE A CHURCH WHERE THEIR HUSBANDS WERE GROWING IN CHRIST BECAUSE OF HER OFFENSES WITH A PERSON(S) AT THE CHURCH, THEN THE MARRIAGE AND FAMILY BEGIN TO PLUNGE INTO HELL BECAUSE SHE PRESAUDED HIM TO MOVE AGANIST WHAT HE KNEW WAS THE WILL OF GOD. LADIES MEN NEED GOOD GODLY ACCOUNTABILITY, IF HE HAS IT DON'T MESS IT UP. NOW BROTHERS IF YOU ARE CONSTANTLY MAKING BAD DECISIONS, THEN YOU HAVE LOST CREDIBILITY WITH YOUR WIFE. TO GET IT BACK: REPENT TO GOD AND YOUR WIFE, GET BACK INTO THE HOUSE OF GOD, ASK HER ADVICE, GET GOOD GODLY ADVICE AND JOIN A CONNECTION GROUP WHERE BROTHERS ARE WAKING WITH GOD. ACCORDING TO PSALMS 133 AGREEMENT IS THE GODS PLACE OF POWER.