Five Key Manifestations of Wisdom

There are five types of wisdom that is discussed in the word of God. At least one of these 5 types of wisdom are in most people. Each of these five types of wisdom are doors into the realm of divine favor with man and God when developed and used to extend the kingdom of God. The five types are: anointed/ skilled hands, relational wisdom, body coordination, intellectual or depths of understanding and revelatory biblical insight. In my seminar called " Promotion in the Marketplace through the Gifts of the Holy Spirit" we discuss these 5 manifestation of wisdom. I have just completed a wonderful seminar on "Being Promoted in the Marketplace through the Gifts of the Holy Spirit." Since so many people have been asking me if they could download the seminar because they were not able to attend or they couldn't get the time off, I would like to extend to everyone for the next 72 hours $25.00 for the download. If you desire to purchase the download send me your email information and I will send you a PayPal invoice to make payment. Once that is done, we will email you download. After Friday, it will go back to its regular price of $40.00. My email address is yul.transformer12@gmail.com

20 + Most Common Dreams People Experience

 In the second half of the seminar," Promotion in the Marketplace through the Gifts of the Holy Spirit" we talk about 20 basic dreams that many people experience: loose teeth, falling, being chase, going back to school, sexual, dying, past romantic relationships, money and much more. Some times people have these many times indicating that interpretation of these dreams can turn their lives around or lead them around " potholes" in life. Always pay attention to dreams that you experience over and over. I have just completed a wonderful seminar on "Being Promoted in the Marketplace through the Gifts of the Holy Spirit." Since so many people have been asking me if they could download the seminar because they were not able to attend or they couldn't get the time off, I would like to extend to everyone for the next 72 hours $25.00 for the download. If you desire to purchase the download send me your email information and I will send you a PayPal invoice to make payment. Once that is done, we will email you download. After Friday, it will go back to its regular price of $40.00. My email address is yul.transformer12@gmail.com

Something that will bless your life

I have just completed a wonderful seminar on "Being Promoted in the Marketplace through the Gifts of the Holy Spirit." Since so many people have been asking me if they could download the seminar because they were not able to attend or they couldn't get the time off, I would like to extend to everyone for the next 72 hours $25.00 for the download. If you desire to purchase the download send me your email information and I will send you a PayPal invoice to make payment. Once that is done, we will email you download. After Friday, it will go back to its regular price of $40.00. My email address is yul.transformer12@gmail.com

Traits of an Administrative Gift Part 2

1. Tend to assign tasks or solve problems with his or her eyes on the future impact of his decisions and actions. 
2. Is strongly motivated to help others become more efficient in carrying out tasks. 
3. Recognizes the importance of maintaining good records and of writing clear instructions.
4. Tends to avoid the limelight; he definitely enjoys the role of a strategic commander working behind the scene. 
5. Tends to remain firm and steadfast, regardless of opposition, once he has determined that a particular goal is in God's will. 
6. Appreciates initiative. He values people who can foresees problems and take action to prevent or correct them without having to get detailed instruction. 
7. Demonstrates an ability to finalize difficult decisions, though he is very careful and deliberate to first examine all of the pertinent facts. 
8. May appear to be a perfectionist because he insist on detailed planning and preparation. 
9. May tend to view people impersonally as resources available for helping him  achieve goals.  Some people working for them may feel that they are being used. 
10. May appear callous to those who misinterpret his willingness to endure reaction.
11. May appear insensitive to the weariness, schedules and priorities of people on his team because of his strong desire to complete a given task as quickly as possible. 
12. Receives great fulfillment  in seeing all the pieces of a project fitting together and in seeing others enjoying the finished product 

Before the End of Black History Month Ends, I wanted to give Tribute to Some African Apostolic Gifts Who Contributed Racial Reconciliation of All Races

Apostle Joseph Ayo Babalola

God used Apostle Babaloloa  for being the key catalyst for the great spiritual revival of 1930 in Oke Oye in llesha, Nigeria.  He was popularly known as the Apostle of Africa. The church which he founded, Christ Apostolic Church has branches all over the world and has a membership of over 10 million worshippers of Jesus Christ across the globe. Some say it is possibly the largest Pentecostal Mission along the West African coast. Like the apostle Paul he received a heavenly call directly from the Lord to be His spokesman. The heavenly vision that he received was later confirmed by Prophet Fapounda in Ipetu-Ijesa. His ministry was filled with mighty signs and wonders. At the inception of his ministry the Lord Jesus Christ instructed him to buy a hand bell with which to terrify forces of darkness who when they hear the sound of the bell was scared with the light of heaven that will always shine every time the bell sounds . Also the Lord instructed him to always bless water for people to drink as a means of healing and deliverance. His said his apostolic ministry did not begin to expand through out the wide geography of Nigeria until the Lord granted the expansion. It was in accordance to the Lord's timing. This expansion begin to take place in 1930. During the early years of breakthrough he injured his leg on a broken bottle. In order to heal properly he decided to go on a forty day fast during Lent. It was during this Lenton period  that satan brought his host to battle with this man of God. In the spiritual realm witches came to battle against him but in the name of Jesus he defeated them. The bushes around him were taken over by demons and they rose in battle against him but in the name of the Lord he destroyed them. Then arose the forces of darkness in the firmament and in the ground to battle with him, but by the blood of the Lamb he over powered them. Rev. 12:10-11; Psalms 118:9-17. After this battle through the power of the Holy Spirit he brought his crusades to Oka, Aromoko, Calabar, Ghana , Lagos, Ifira, Epinmi, Ishua, Ipesi, Idoani , Idogun, Ekpe, Igarra, Otuo. When the Lord called him to minister, He told him it would last 30 years. As the time dawn him, you could hear him in the midnight hours praying in a vibrated voice the shook the building ,which indicated that he was praying regarding an issue that touched his heart.
     In 1959 during these times of protracted intercession God revealed to him that a time was coming in Nigeria when it will appear as if a spiritual revival had never taken place before. He said the spirit of the 1930 revival will be absolutely diminished. However, he revealed to him that after 30 years , God was going to start another revival but the person that God was going to use was still a very small boy and that satan was planing to kill him but the Lord Jesus Christ was not going to allow this to happen.
     According to one of his assistants, on the eve of his home-going, He was heard praying for the entire nations of the world for spiritual revival and peace. He prayed for all existing churches  and ministers of the gospel that the work of the gospel should progress. At that point he breathed his last breath with three distant breathes that shook the building.
    I wanted to honor this man of God on Black History Month because his passion was for the entire Body of Christ. I've done research on apostolic ministries for the last 15 years. From my research, I make these conclusions about about authentic apostolic gifts :

1. They love God's church. They see the Christ Church through His eyes and heart. They are willing to lay down their lives for the maturation of Christ Church in the earth. They exist for building Christ Jesus Church.
2. They possess a passion to reproduce and develop men and women who are greater in stature than themselves so that the perpetuity of the gospel is perpetuated and it on going progress is assured. Once their eyes sees ministerial potential in an individual, with their submission they can build them from the ground
3. The posture of their hearts is to see the knowledge of God's glory spread across the earth.
4. Great restorers of fallen and broken leaders
5. Everything they do emanates from an ongoing revelation of the Lord Jesus Christ.

There are many other qualities. In fact, what I just mention is quite simplistic. However what was mentioned about Apostle Babalola can be founded in the book, " A Call To Honor, A Biography of Apostle Joseph Ayo Babalola" by Rev. Babatunde Ezekiel Ajibola.

Administration, one of the missing gifts Part 1

     Many years ago Ted Engstrom wrote several books on leadership and organizational development.  I want to share some excerpts from his book " The Gift of Administration" on the traits of  an administrator. Romans 12:6-8 and 1 Cor. 12:28-29 refer to the gift of administration in the New Testament. Moses, Joshua, King David, King Solomon Apostle Paul, Luke,  Josiah, etc.   flowed in various levels of the gift of administration. Romans 12:8 states," one who rules well." The word " rule" in its original language is " prostemi." Prostemi means " take the lead; to be over; to superintend and preside over.  Romans 12:8  is not referring to administration as an office , but to one who possess an administrative approach to situations. Just as an artist wants to paint, a musician wants to play and an evangelist wants to preach, so one with the gift of administration wants to give active leadership from a strategic- aligned systems perspective. Below are some of the Engstrom's identification traits of a  gifted administrator:

1. Possess an ability to integrate several ministries, tasks, and/ or projects  towards the fulfillment of a long- range goal. 
2. Is sensitive to future needs, particularly to future needs that are not being planned for by others. 
3. Has an ability to  visualize overall needs and to clarify long- range goals 
4. Has an ability to put together individual Christians to form efficient , well - organized teams on which the members work well together, divide their labor efficiently, and enjoy each other's company.
5. Has an ability to discuss the talents, resources, and spiritual gifts of individual believers. 
6. Tends to avoid involvement in anything for which has no organizational responsibility. Has a tendency to remain on the sideline until the leaders in charge give them responsibility. 
7. Desires to see that his time  and the time of others is used efficiently 
8. Tends to insist on thorough planning and organization before embarking on a new task or new ministry. Tends to to avoid the develop- as- you- go to ministries or projects. He wants things done right from the beginning. 
9. Demonstrates a willingness to wait on a project or ministry until it is properly set up. Once a project is set up, however, he or she will push for maximum speed in accomplishing its goals. 
10. Is strongly motivated to organize anything for which he is responsible. 

Some of the Prophetic Words God Gave Me for 2014

Remember we prophesy in part : Today,  I awaken with a real burden from the Lord to share this today. I don't know why today, but I felt I should not leave the house until I  finished preparing this document. Please excuse grammatical errors or misspells. 

Prophetic Words for 2014

1.    This year is going to be a time when the Holy Spirit is going to re-center the church on the church that  Christ is building and the mission He gave it at His Ascension

a.   The gospels of Jesus Christ is going to come alive this year with a renewed focus upon on Jesus mission on earth and the assignment He gave the church at His ascension. There is going to be a special anointing on those who preach about Jesus and His ongoing ministry in the earth

b.   In fact, we are going to receive renewed revelation about using the name of Jesus for healing and miracles because certain apostles and inspired teachers are going to begin to preach and teach about being a people of “authority.” There have been many ministries centered on the power of Christ, but we are going to see many ministries come forth who are centered on the authority and power of Christ. Some miracles are going to take place as Jesus Christ name is mentioned in messages for the Holy Spirit is longing to glorify Christ; for many have departed from preaching Christ and Him crucified by preaching principles and sayings that are detached from the Person of Christ. The grandeur the Holy Spirit gives Christ and His Church is going to begin to be revived in this season.

c.   The finest of wheat ( Ps.81:6; 141:14)  is going to be released from heaven on the incarnation of Christ, New creation  revelations, the parables of the kingdom, the atonement of Jesus Christ and the power of His blood; the Great Commission and the power evangelistic ministry of Jesus Christ.  There’s going to be a marriage between

                                                    i.     The King and Kingdom of God message

                                                  ii.     The authority and the power of Jesus Christ

                                                iii.     Bridal theology and kingdom of God theology

                                               iv.     Signs and Wonders and walking in Holiness

                                                 v.     Atonement of Christ and living from the New Covenant

                                               vi.     Word of God and Power of God

                                              vii.     Spiritual Warfare and Evangelism

                                            viii.     Worshipping God and the Spirit of Prophecy

                                                ix.     The mission of the  Ekklesia and the 7 mountains

d.   This year the Father  is drawing many of His sheep who have forsaken, Him  as their first love into primary- focused intimacy with Christ Jesus.( Rev. 2:4-5) He will become the splendor of our heart. Many “ Marthas who  are ridden with burnout and exhaustion are going to experience fresh fillings of the Holy Spirit as they sit and soak at the feet of Jesus. (Luke 10:40)  Some are going to experience what many of the “ father’s from the past experienced “ ecstasies’ and raptures of His incomprehensible love as they drink from His pleasure forevermore in His presence. ( Psalms 16:11)

e.   The fivefold ministries will be seen as the equipping ministries of Jesus Christ because these ministries proceed directly out of the ministry of Christ. Those who flow with  fresh oil´ (Ps.92:10) in these ministries will move with a conscious awareness that Christ is actively manifesting His diverse fivefold ministry through them because these ministries in their purest form proceed out of What He is in Himself. ( Eph. 4:11)

f.      Self- idolatry  and the pursuit of making a name for themselves has been the enemies hook to neutralize the effectiveness of major leaders that led the dawning of the kingdom of God message. For the Lord had given them a measure of his majesty, such as He gave King David.   A City could be called the “City of David” without David seeking to make His name great because King David’s heart was to make His praise glorious in the earth. Even now there is a vacancy of authority that has not been occupied in the DeKalb region, but as God saw David as a king while Saul was ruling, there is s company arising by the Holy Spirit that shall occupy that seat and be given sevenfold more authority than their predecessors, for they shall move with Jehu’s anointing and defeat the Jezebalian powers that have ruled the atmosphere in that region. In the day of that triumph the decay of DeKalb and Decatur shall cease and a new world wide influence shall emanate from that region in the business arena. Embedded in the DNA of DeKalb County there is a grace for prosperity, but it shall not  resurge until the King of the Kingdom of God is enthroned in the hearts of many united believers desiring to rebuild the education and family arenas with kingdom values.

2.    The “orphan spirit” shall begin to loosen its grip on Metro Atlanta in the next three years because the Father Himself shall begin to raise up three distinct African Americans from this region who will be “Trumpets of the Father’s Love” with unusual signs and wonder. They will preach and teach with such clarity and compassion, that young men especially and families are going to experience radical deliverances as the “orphan spirit” is broken off of this region. The key to breaking this layer of demonic entrenchment will be the apostolic voices, whom themselves have experienced healing encounters with God in their own lives.  This message is coming to Atlanta with authenticity and power.  Music is going to mediate the Father’s love throughout the country, but this music shall flow out of this city in the domains of this country. The message of the Father’s love will thunder from this region in word, in power and in music. The next men’s movement in Atlanta will flow out of the revelation of the Father’s love. As this is occurring:

3.    This year we will begin to see evidence of “baptism of fire “coming upon certain  individuals. They will carry the fire and give it away to others. More revelation regarding the “baptism of fire” is going to come out of the Hispanic community and engulf this nation. The Hispanic community will be among the key players in this upcoming moving of the Holy Spirit throughout the US.

4.     As we prophesied last year that there was coming a harvest of a billion youth from around the world, it has already started in certain places around the world but we will see this begin to take off this year in the United States. Since the word of God cannot be bound, we are going to see the word of God in high schools and middle schools students will be missionaries to their schools. Once it starts, this oil will continue to flow until there meetings in stadiums filled with these students. As the Holy Spirit begins to move in the high school; the river of God is going to break forth in colleges. When floods begin to occur  in the “ States” beyond  the norm in natural, get ready for harvest-rain is going to fall in colleges and universities. This will begin this year and escalate in the upcoming years as the prayer and intercession increase city-wide.

5.    Two years ago I looked up in the heavens and saw large machinery over Atlanta that look like large turbines and the angels kept flipping the switch, but there was no power. The Holy Spirit spoke to me that the level of intercession was not large enough to turn the generators of power over this region. Later, I read something similar in Prophet Hamons book on praying in the Spirit. But this was the revelation the Lord gave me for this city.  There must be much more intercession over this region for the revival that was spoken to come. Even this year, you will begin to see momentum in manifestations of the Holy Spirit, but is not enough for what I want to bring to the metropolis of Atlanta. I have been knocking on the door of the hearts of my leaders in this city to bring their churches in alignment with a new thrust of intercession. Many of my servants in this city do not pray, but depend on the messages of others for the sermons they preach in the pulpit. Come unto me  and I will give you the finest of wheat to minister to your people. I have called many of my servants in this city to return to early Morning Prayer in their own prayer closet. I have called many to pray, but few have responded.  As you answer the call to pray, I will lead you to mobilize your church to pray and then I  will mobilize you to gather with other churches and intercede. Take note of what I am doing in South Korea, Argentina, the underground church in China, in the Philippine Islands and even in certain locations in Africa, it happening because they answered My call to partner with Me intercession. Now once again the winds of intercession and worship shall begin to stir in this region for I desire to do a great work in this region. I desire to tear open the heaven over this region and visit this region in revival and reformation for 12 consecutive years without ceasing, but I must have a people who will corporate with me in intercession. I must have leaders whose hearts are large enough to wrap their arms around this region. There are five key apostolic and prophetic generals who will possess great authority in mobilizing this region in intercession. I will unveiled them, for they themselves do not know that I have called them for such things as this.

6.    In Dec. the Lord spoke to me that one of the keys to revival/reformation  in this region are the keys to the Argentine Revival and the major healing evangelists that were used to release his power around the world in the 1900’s. Even now I see “ Argentine Revival” in lights. There is something about that revival we must learn.

7.    Word of Wisdom/ the Spirit of Wisdom and Understanding are the key  gifts that  we must pursue with all of our heart for the next three years. As my people pursue my wisdom, I will grant creative dreams that will turn some into billionaires and some into millionaires so that what I am doing in the earth in My church may come fort. I am going to use some to eliminate poverty in key cities through the resources and finances I give you. I desire to confound this world through the display of my wisdom in my sons and daughters of the kingdom. I will speak with you as you rise out of your sleep with solutions to problems your company and factories have wrestle with for years. In Christ Jesus are hidden all the treasure of wisdom and knowledge and if you cry out to me, I will reveal to you the treasures that are hidden in darkness, ( Isa.45)I will unveil mysteries in the medical and science field among my people. Cry out to Me for wisdom and if you behave yourself wisely I will grant you promotions through the motion of My wisdom in your heart. I will give my writers, who are My pens in the earth plays, screen plays, novels and poetry in dreams and vision and through ideas I plant in your heart. I desire to distinguish My Kingdom through My Church. Pray much in the spirit and ask me, seek after me and knock with faith until My wisdom come. I will move in such a way among those whom I can trust with this type of promotion in the entertainment mountain, that will cause secular movie moguls to sit in My House and glean from the wisdom I place in My servants Hearts. I have tested many in the past with this level of authority and  like Demas, they loved the world and departed from Me. I am looking for a people who do love not the world ( lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes and pride of life) so that I can give entrust them with the world and its resources to  further my kingdom in the earth.

8.    There is  going to be a graduation in prophetic ministry because many nabi- prophets are going to become nabi-seer prophets. I shall promote those who have stood in the counsel of the Lord. I am going to promote those who have allowed me to circumcise their heart for the last 25 years. Seek my face with all of your hearts and I will be found of you. There are prophets whom I have gifted to minister worldwide, but they no longer seek me, their gift work, but My presence has departed from them. Be discerning as you partner in alliance with certain prophetic companies. I have been in the process  training under the skillful hands of Bishop Johnson through the anvil of servant-hood and wilderness for more than 30 years. Many prophetic gifts have never been trained, thus they bring much pain to God’s sheep. Don’t skip your training.

9.    Nations and States

a.   Years ago while I was in Bogotá the Lord showed me a great earthquake in South America. During the vision I literally saw and felt the earth move. I was shaken by what  experience. When we left Columbia, I later saw on news a great earthquake occurred in Lima.  In December, I saw earthquakes in several places in the US, but there was  one that I saw that strongly affected me-  that one mostly in the middle of the US, a little more on the East.  It was so large, that it was felt throughout the nation even into Canada. Since then I have been in intercession for it not to occur because there was much devastation.

b.   China- the underground church is going to be granted more freedom because they are going to see a correlation between the success of the church and the success of their nation. I did see signs in the heavens, in weather and in the earth that speaks prophetically of change in that nation.  Stories about the church in China will soon begin to circulate on a larger scale and bless the world

c.   Europe- I saw the Lord place his hands on young spiritual revolutionist that will trumpet the word of God. Canada and London will send apostolic and prophetic voices that will pave the way for the move of God that will break forth in certain places in Europe. Sweden will become an apostolic center that will send out many apostolic- pastor into Europe. A female evangelistic- prophetic minister shall come forth out of Europe, and great will be the company that publish her works. 

d.   The place known as the “ seat of Satan” will give birth to a leader that will bring much trouble in the earth in years to come..

e.   Russia- the youth in Russia will trigger many positive changes and negative changes. There is great war in the heavenlies regarding this country.

f.      Africa- great revelation regarding the kingdom of God is going to release in certain nations in Africa. Reformation shall begin to accelerate in this region because Ethiopia shall once again lift her hands in praise unto the Lord. There are key resources in Africa that God has hidden for a strategic purpose and strategic time.

g.   The Philippine Islands is on the crest of one of the most incredible revivals ever. I saw the Philippine Islands sending out envoys to Singapore, Japan, Indonesia and several other countries in that triangle. I saw a “ hideous spirit chained up in the bowls of the center of the Pacific near Asia” being released , but quickly chained because of the prayers of the saints. Once again, signs and wonders shall sweep the Phillipine Islands, especially among the youth. A new industry or company shall begin to come forth in these islands that will employ many. Revival will pave the way for positive economic change.

h.    I saw Australia becoming a key resource center for the body of Christ world-wide.  But I hear the Lord calling a “ prayer mountain” that prays 24-7 in Australia that will be operated by the involvement of 100,000 +people. If this occurs the heinous plans of the enemy regarding Australia will be aborted. The land will blossom with anointed and unprecedented prosperity, if my people will pray. I am calling you to going the  Phillipines in prayer.

i.       From the “DMV” of the United States I saw the Lord raising up educational reformers that will bring major change to education as we know it in the US

j.       Now is the season to pray for the next President and the one after that one. A new movement of non-party line intercession for the government is going to come forth because a dark season is coming when everyone who knows the name of Jesus must pray because of what will be at stake. In a day, everything shall change as we know it. There are three major hidden demonic conspiracies targeting the United States: 1) to plant seeds of division that could trigger a civil war within this nation in 20 or more years 2) rewrite the constitution so that a new satanic throne can be erected in this nation, that would make worshipping Jesus Christ illegal 3) deceiving the minds of the youth and young adults. There are

k.    Pray for the protection of the food supply and water supply of the US. Pray for the gas lines and power grids. Pray that God would uncover all terroristic plots against the US and it borders.

10.                    I heard the Holy Spirit speak that He was converging all the movements of His Church in this hour upon the harvest of lost souls and backsliders  who are   building material from the seven mountains  that He will  use to extend the Kingdom of God. True apostolic centers need fresh building material “ souls” to train so that it continues to reproduce ministry that infiltrates the seven domains of our society until the earth is covered with the knowledge of God’s glory. True apostolic power grids have wineskins that can hold the harvest, train the harvest and release the harvest so that it multiplies until the kingdom of this world becomes the kingdom of our Lord.

     The Lord started seeding my heart with these words during the summer of 2013. Every year for the last three years I’ve been lead to give prophetic words for the upcoming year at Church Without Limits in Toronto Canada. If you would like these recordings and the one what was given  on the evening of January 19^th, please contact Toronto City Church, now pastored by Lead Pastor Brendon Witton.

Hidden Faces of Pride of in our Lives

For many of us, this is an area in our character that God is eradicating. The spirit of pride is the master nature of Satan. Many of us have received wonderful words from the Lord, but it seems that  cleansing from this carefully veiled sin, maybe the determining factor in functioning at the pinnacle of our anointed  potential. When it comes to pride, others can see it in us before we see it.When the Holy Spirit exposes pride in our hearts, spiritual maturity is exemplified when we quickly repent from the heart and manifest the repentance by correcting the situation or relationship. Embracing the revelation of  the cross of Jesus Christ is our exit point from pride.  I am going to provide a short list of some of the manifestations of pride. 

1. Insecurity 
2. Stubbornness is the master twin of pride. Stubbornness is present when we make an idol of our opinion. 
3. The areas of our lives where we are unteachable are the areas of our lives where the spirit of pride is working 
4. Where ever there is rejection, self -rejection or fear of rejection, pride is the coping mechanism used by our flesh to deal with the different modes of rejection 
5. Critical heart or mouth 
6. Contention ( fights and arguments) 
7. Pride never hears the leading of the Holy Spirit in anyone else in equal degrees than their own personal hearing. 
8. Prayerlessness  means I depend on myself and not on God. 
9. People who don't find joy in praising and worshiping God, find their greatest joy in receiving praise from man. Praising God decentralizes self. 
10. Pride presumes, always assumes and usurps positions of authority presumptuously
11. Cannot receive correction
12. Secretly feeds on the accolades and praise from man- takes God's glory in self- unperceived degrees 
13. Pride never allows  a person within whom it works to perceive it 
14. Pride is the primary cause of all divisions, dissensions, separations among leaders and key relationships (i.e. marriage) 
15. Pride is the spirit behind all disguise, deceptions and deceit 
16. Pride will always fulfill James 3:13-16 - For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil work. 
17. Pride in the position of authority, leads by domination 
18. Pride cannot graciously be disagreed with or challenged 
19. Pride can see the faults in others but cannot see the beams in their own eyes- every man is right in his own eyes 
20. In all conflict you act, react or retaliate because in your own eyes you are correct 
21. Pride will not let you know true submission in rest and trust 
22. Prides cause you to create fear in others so it will not be exposed or offended 
23. Pride will not allow one to be teachable when challenged, disagreed with or corrected 
24. Or pride will allow you to be corrected easy, but will cause one to find a reason to retaliate and counter charge
25. Pride only allows one  to receive graciously those who feed its nature. The people who feed the pride nature are the ones who receives the greatest favor. 
26. Pride will cause one to always have to the last say and the most to say 
27. Self pity is close alliance with pride. Wherever self pity lurks in our heart, pride is in full operation 
28. Pride operates in wise deceit by manipulating and controlling others 
29. Prides causes one to place priority on being right above healing the relationship 
30. Pride is the primary reason for us not be apologizing, admitting we are wrong and for most un-forgiveness 
31. Pride hinders us from seeing things from the other person's perspective 
32.  The dark spirit of pride is attracted to the  unhealed wounded heart. Pride keeps us from seeking help from the right people when we are wounded. A wounded heart does not mean you are weak, it means you were wounded in battle. Needing help from another believer does not mean we are weak. Seek help when you need assistance in your journey with God means you are wise. 

Prayer Points for a Better Prayer Life 2

1. Grant me Your heart for expansive and deeper levels of prophetic intercessors 
2. Lord release a new level of prophetic intercession in my heart 
3. Grant me, an anointing for fasting and prayer 
4. Grant me, an anointing for prevailing in prayer and intercession 
5. Grant me, an new grace of travailing in prayer and intercession 
6. Release in me a strategic anointing to orchestrate prayer and intercession 
7. Grant me anointing for for soaking, contemplative and meditative prayer 
8. Make us demonstrations of the unseen realities of the power , dominion and character of the Kingdom of God 
9. Let my life become an re-enactment of the power of the Holy Spirit  as it was demonstrated in the book of Acts 
10. Enlarge my capacity to receive the fullness of the revelation of Your love for me 
11. Grant me grace to live from the secret place (Psalm 91:1) 
12. Grant me a new level of praise and worship in my devotional life. 

Prayer Points for Men Who Want to be Better Husbands 2

1. Jesus said, " If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny Himself and take up his cross, and follow me ( Luke 9:23) The cross are the assignments given to us by God. Father God, help me to deny myself, so that I can serve and love my wife from the heart.
2. Holy Spirit, I desire to be an imitator of Christ in my marriage in every way. Holy Spirit reveal to me where I am not Christlike in my marriage. Today, I repent of these  bad attitudes towards _____(your wife) and marriage:__________  Replace your bad attitudes with good attitudes. Ask God for His assistance living out these right attitudes as your recite them before Him: 
3. Father God reveal to me all selfish acts and attitudes I manifest towards my wife. Guide me to all truth regarding all selfishness in my heart that I exihibt towards my ________ . Help me to repent quickly regarding all revealed selfishness in my heart. 
4. Lord give me an understanding heart regarding ____________ (your wife)
5. Help me to be sensitive in getting ________ (wife) and my children needs met over my own needs 
6. Lord Jesus minister Your resurrection life to my unmet needs that _______ ( wife) cannot meet. 
7. Holy Spirit, your are the greatest husband coach and teacher in the universe, teach me how to be a good husband. Holy Spirit coach me throughout the day as I  interact with _____ Holy Spirit help me to the right things, even when I don't think its fair. 
8. Holy Spirit, show me when I do anything that devalues or bring shame to ______ ( wife) and my children 
9. Lord reveal me how to humble myself to ________ and express affectionate love 
10. Help me to focus on my wrong actions and words 
11. Lord help me to not take myself so serious all the time in our marriage. Release truckloads of humor and fun in our marriage and family. 
12. Lord help me to represent the heart of Father-God to ______ (wife) 

Prayer- points for a Better Prayer Life 1

1. Worship the Lord with thanksgiving and praise 
2. Declare: It is given unto me to understand the mysteries of God regarding prayer and intercession through the spirit of wisdom and revelation released in me as I read the word of God and wait before the Lord. 
3. Declare 7 times: Father God  releases the mind of Christ in me when I pray and read His Word 
4. Holy Spirit allow me to hear the deep thoughts of the Father and the articulations of Jesus Christ in my heart 
5. Grant me the grace to accept the partnership you have given me in governing all that has been created by the Word of His Power. ( Heb. 1:3) 
6. May I pray the current decrees that Jesus is making over ________ ( your city, your church, the Us,  your family and the people you are discipling) given to Him by the Father ( Psalm 2:7) 
7. Let the rhema of God God dwell richly in my heart in all wisdom , psalms and spiritual songs ( Eph.5:18-19) 
8. May the Word of God run swiftly and powerfully through me, ______ ( your wife , children and disciples)  ( 2 Thess. 3:1) 
9. Anoint me to receive and return God's love 
10. Unite my heart to fear God ( Psalms 86:11) 
11. Let my mouth in  prophetic ministry, in teaching and in discipling others occur by the sharp sword proceeding from the mouth of Jesus Christ ( Rev. 19:13-15) 
12. Pour out upon my life , _____ the spirit of grace and supplication ( Zech 12:10) 
13. Lord, pour out my  _________ (my disciples) the spirit of grace and supplication 
14. Sustain the spirit of prayer in my life, _______ ( your spouse), _________ ( your children) and ________ ( your disciples) 
15. Release the mantle of prayer upon my life 
16. Release the mantle of praise upon my life ( Is.61:3) 
17. Release the watchmen's anointing upon my life 

Prayer-points for Men Who Want to Be Better Husbands 1

1. Note: Just as Christ ever lives to make intercession for the church, I believe every husband my live to intercede for his wife.  
2. Lord grant me water from the waters of heaven so that I may wash _____ with the water of my words ( Ephesians 5:26)
3. Nothing is impossible to you Lord, grant me the grace to love ______ like Christ loves the church. I want to love _______ more than I love myself. ( Eph.5:25) 
4. Since there is no fear in love, I bind the spirit of rejection from operating in my heart and mind and I loose a new measure of the supernatural love of God in my heart for ______. 
5. According to the authority given to me as the head of my house- I declare every demonic siege against my home be destroyed in Jesus name. I apply the blood of Jesus over the atmosphere of my home. I apply the blood of Jesus around the perimeter of my dwelling in Jesus name. 
6. I speak death and destruction upon any altars speaking against the purpose of God for my life, my wife and children 
7. Father God release your tenderness in my heart to reach ______ heart 
8. Father God release your deep wells of compassion in my heart towards _______
9. " For I gave you an example that you should always do as I did to you, grant my the ability model the love of God to Father to _______ ( John 13:15) 
10. Lord, my attitude needs to be adjusted. I am asking you Lord that I would have in myself the attitude which was in Jesus Christ, who emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant to _____.
11. As I repent of my selfishness, through the grace of God, I empty myself of all selfishness and take on the heart of a servant  to _________
12. Holy Spirit  show me how to serve ________ Lord , how can I serve ________ today?
13. Write down the instructions the Lord gives  your regarding your wife  

Fulfillment in Marriage

Yesterday I posted in FB some hard , but true admonitions for us husbands. Today, I am going to mentioned something that may be a challenge for SOME wives, but not all. Sometimes wives may get frustrated, angry or exasperated, because it seems like her husband is pouting because of the lack of attention, or  feelings that  he is not number 1 or simply because of the lack of sex. Some marriage experts believe that sex is the number one need of the husband, others believe that it's the second or third need in a husband's life. However, we must conclude that if it is a priority in a husband's life. There is a difference between having sex or being sexually satisfied. A wife's attitude towards sex - whether fun or cold or let's just get this over with or hot and heated makes all the difference towards your husband. In other words, your husband needs sex and he needs his wife to love sex with him. Leman said, " He longs to be intimate with the one person he trusts above all others and that's you. If he is fulfilled in his relationship with you he will seek no others." Leman goes on to say if a husband is respected, needed and fulfilled by his wife, he will make a much better husband and dad.
The dilemma that most wives face is juggling, their jobs, children, in-law relationships, friends, church etc with only emotional leftovers to give their husbands. Rather than saying to yourself,  " He is such a baby" realize that he is paying you the biggest honor or compliment by saying that you are the only one he wants to be intimate with. Remember, if he feels fulfill with you, he will seek no other. About 25 years ago I heard a woman of God, who had been happily married for 55 years , a pioneer in deliverance ministry say to wives as an admonition, A man can be tempted to leave a wife he loves for a woman who respects and admire him. Prayer is not a substitute for what I just mentioned. Praying about doing something that you know you should do is simply rebellion. Ladies, how you look at your husband, the tone of your voice, etc can  positively change the atmosphere in your marriage. I've been involve in marriage coaching for over 28 years and I have seen the regret in both husband's and wive's heart because after the divorce was filed they realized that if they had done the little things, or if they had apologized, or just said they were wrong, or got help from a counselor, or if they had not listen to foolish advice or if they just gave their mate more attention or if they had listened to the Holy Spirit they would be married and not living by themselves while raising children. Let me recommend the following for you: 1) Bishop Johnson and Ladies Carolyn series on " Blended Families or  their series on the Principle of Mutuality 2) Dr. Douglas Rosenau's " A Celebration of Sex for Newlyweds"; A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift; A Celebration of Sex After 50 3) Also, Dr. Douglas Rosenau's has a world renowned psychological practice committed to sexual health in the marriage in Metro Atlanat 4) 7 Things He'll Never Tell You- Dr. Kevin Leman